one of them has left, it will be necessary to get them together and get them talking again before they are ready to ask forgiveness and recommit to each other. Setting the Goals The basic goals in dealing with a crisis should shape our approach to our own crises and our ministry to others in crisis. Secular models generally encourage these steps: 1. Resolve the immediate crisis 2. Encourage personal growth 3. Increase coping mechanisms All three of these are valid and suitable goals for anyone seeking